by: Lara Park – Author, NLP Life Coach and Spiritual Healer

How do we release entanglement so that we can be free?

I have often heard the term “Sins of the father” and although I sort of attached my own meaning to it, it wasn’t until recently that I started connecting the dots to a deeper meaning which makes a whole of sense. In the past, the meaning I attached was simply that whatever “sins” my parents committed, I would have to pay for them in some way during the course of my life, which then put a whole lot of pressure on me to be the best parent I could be and to constantly assess and judge my performance in fear of my children paying for my “sins” and my parents’ “sins”. Almost like a curse, if you will. This put a
whole lot of stress into my parenting and quite honestly, I felt a bit helpless. After all, if this is a curse, what control do I have of the outcome?

Now, I am not sure what the various religions believe about this and I am not here to challenge their theories, but this just does not seem to make logical sense to me that someone should have to pay for something someone else has done and certainly as a life coach I believe we are all responsible for the choices we make whether consciously or unconsciously. Of course this will be YOUR choice! So basically, the human energy system is made up of five layers of energy. The Physical layer, Etheric Layer, Emotional layer, Mental layer and Spiritual layer.

All these layers have specific functions which vibrate at different frequencies. Together with these layers are energy fields. There is the Morphogenetic Field, the Astrological Energy Field, the Planetary Event Energy Field, the Genetic Line Energy Field, the Spiritual Evolution Energy Field and the Human Energy Field. Again, each of these fields have specific functions. The other thing worth mentioning is that our energy fields are interconnected to others’ fields. The field I would like to bring your attention to here however is the Genetic Line Energy Field.

The human energy system is of great interest to me and something I have been able to understand from a child. I managed to solidify this understanding with scientific research once I took the leap to become a Spiritual Healer in my early 30’s. So I will attempt to share with you how the energy system works to offer you a greater understanding of the term “sins of the father”, so that you can become empowered and break the bonds that tie you.

Energy from this field can be passed through DNA or passed around the family tree, so what happens is that whatever issues your parents and their parents have been unable to deal with will cause this energy, (emotion, belief etc.) to linger in your energy field, affecting the way you see and do life, and whatever you are then unable to deal with will linger in your children’s’ life and so on and so on until this energy is dealt with, healed or if you prefer the term, transformed. So in summary, our ancestral energy has an impact on our emotions and feelings.

The good news is that if we remain inquisitive about ourselves and our emotions and behaviors we are then able to deal with these issues, or vibrations, thereby transforming them into a higher vibration and releasing them from our field which will then benefit everyone in your genetic line. So, if you want to be a healthier parent, lover, spouse, friend, sibling, grandparent, start working on clearing your field. Life has a wonderful way of showing you what needs to be healed and the timing will always be perfect. I would encourage anyone who is wanting to start a family to find a way of clearing your field. There are so many options out there from Life Coaching, to Counselling, to Kinesiology, to simple Journaling These options usually find you so keep your eyes and ears open.

This is a journey you will do not only for yourself and your children but your entire lineage. The other thing you need to know is that information travels back and forth in these energy fields as information is shared and feedback is relayed. Being energy, it can never be lost or broken, only transformed from one vibration to another. Let me explain it this way. Energy is atoms vibrating at different frequencies. Atoms cannot disappear or be broken, they can merely be transformed into another frequency. Water molecules can’t just disappear, they are transformed through evaporation, or freezing, so they move from one form to another but still exist. I think you get the picture.

The other thing worth mentioning is that our energy fields are interconnected to others’ fields. The field I would like to bring your attention to here however is the Genetic Line Energy Field. Energy from this field can be passed through DNA or passed around the family tree, so what happens is that whatever issues your parents and their parents have been unable to deal with will cause this energy, (emotion, belief etc.) to linger in your energy field, affecting the way you see and do life, and whatever you are then unable to deal with will linger in your children’s’ life and so on and so on until this energy is dealt with, healed or if you prefer the term, transformed.

So in summary, our ancestral energy has an impact on our emotions and feelings. The good news is that if we remain inquisitive about ourselves and our emotions and behaviors we are then able to deal with these issues, or vibrations, thereby transforming them into a higher vibration and releasing them from our field which will then benefit everyone in your genetic line. So, if you want to be a healthier parent, lover, spouse, friend, sibling, grandparent, start working on clearing your field. Life has a wonderful way of showing you what needs to be healed and the timing will always be perfect. I would encourage anyone who is wanting to start a family to find a way of clearing your field.

There are so many options out there from Life Coaching, to Counselling, to Kinesiology, to simple Journaling These options usually find you so keep your eyes and ears open. This is a journey you will do not only for yourself and your children but your entire lineage. The other thing you need to know is that information travels back and forth in these energy fields as information is shared and feedback is relayed. Being energy, it can never be lost or broken, only transformed from one vibration to another. Let me explain it this way. Energy is atoms vibrating at different frequencies. Atoms cannot disappear or be broken, they can merely be transformed into another frequency. Water molecules can’t just disappear, they are transformed through evaporation, or freezing, so they move from one form to another but still exist. I think you get the picture.

I hope this article empowers you and helps you to know and feel that you can make the difference. And remember, there is no judgement in energy…….it just IS!

I Blame Myself…..

I blame myself for not being good enough, I blame myself for not earning enough money,
I blame myself for causing the pain my children feel, I blame myself for breathing.
Oh mother, if only you had known how much damage you were doing.
I live my life in blame. It was my fault always for your pain
I had no control, it was always my fault. If only you had known, how vulnerable I was,
How much I needed you to believe in me, trust in me,
How do I recover now in a world filled with blame?
I cannot understand how I got to this, this feeling that is hopeless and I am to blame.
I pray for help, help to reclaim that part of me that was lost,
that part of me that believes I am whole and nothing is missing,
That part of me that knows, beyond a shadow of doubt that I am worthy.
To once again know the love in my heart that is pure and untainted.
I know it is there, waiting for me to return, and although the journey may be tough,
I know that once I return, I will be home and the struggle will be no more.
I pray for this with all my heart and soul, And know that I am heard.

Further Reading
Hands of Light by Barbara Ann Brennan